- In the 2010s, Instagram Became the World’s Filter [The Cut]
- ‘Being Careful’ Won’t Prevent Revenge Porn [The Cut]
- The 100 Best Movies of the 2010s [AV Club]
- What to Do If a Package Is Stolen From Your Porch [Life Hacker]
- Second Life Podcast: Sallie Krawcheck [WhoWhatWear]
It’s a little embarrassing how hard I laughed watching this yesterday evening. I liked it so much that I stopped Kevin and I in the middle of a football game so that I could turn this on for us.
- The Best Mountain Towns to Visit in America [Thrillist]
- How Cam Models Changed the Porn World Forever [VICE]
- The 12 Best Men’s Style Instagram Accounts [Gearmoose]
- Meet the Uninfluencers [The Cut]
- 25 TV Shows That Should Have Ended Sooner [VICE]
- The Blobs Have Come for Restaurant Designs [Eater]
- The 10 Coolest Places in America to Drink Craft Beer [Men’s Journal]
- Why Talking to Strangers is the Best Thing You Can Do for Your Mental Health [Mel Magazine]
- N.E.R.D. to Reissue Debut Album In Search Of on Vinyl [Fader]
- A Sugar Baby on Starting out with Clients, and Sex & Romance with Sugar Daddies [Hypebae]
- ‘I saved $100,000 in 3 years’ [The Cut]
- ESPN Cover Story – The Unbreakable Bond [ESPN]
It’s interesting for me to see clips of “Sesame Street” now in 2019 because I have so much context and general life experience, but I often wonder how I would have grasped ideas like this as a kid. Watching this clip now, they graze over the idea of “drug addiction” without actually saying it. Is it because it’s just enough information that viewers will discuss it with their parents afterwards? This leads me to become even more fascinated by the producers and those that create the content of the show. Regardless, these are important things to discuss. Growing up, I did have peers that faced difficult home lives and obviously they weren’t discussed often, but there were subtle clues that you didn’t know how to ask about or you did and had to tread those waters when you got there.
This isn’t the first time I’ve shared “Karli’s” story on Yow Yow! but even through a tough upbringing, she’s such a positive light. I’m loving her story line and appreciate how much it is resonating with viewers.
It’s not confirmed yet that she’ll be Catwoman, but if we’re following the comics correctly, that’s basically what is going to happen. We couldn’t think of anyone more perfect to fill this role than Zoë. As Bonnie in the last two seasons of “Big Little Lies,” I was on the edge of my seat waiting to see what her next big role would be. She will star opposite of Robert Pattison in the upcoming The Batman film with a slated release of June 25, 2021.
Fact: When the pumpkin spice latte is released by Starbucks, I buy it on day one. Every day after that, it becomes my go-to latte in the morning before work until the holiday drinks come out.
Shane Gillis (center)
I had been debating all week since I heard the news whether I was going to write a post or not. Then I remembered that the problem is not saying anything at all. Not speaking up means people like Shane Gillis can continue to blur the lines of blatant racism and comedy.
This week, Saturday Night Live announced that there would be 3 new cast members added to their roster. In two weeks, the new season will welcome comedian Bowen Yang as the first Asian cast member to join in 44 years. It’s hard to praise the series because in a way, it’s unacceptable for the series to go this long to add Asian diversity, but we will take it. However, overshadowing this news is that comedian Shane Gillis will also join the roster. As quickly as this was announced, the internet dug up clips from Gillis in which he was racist, sexist, and homophobic. People didn’t have to look too far because a lot of this material was posted just in 2018.
I considered not watching the clip – specifically the one from his podcast with Matt McCusker. Why? I’ve heard it all before growing up as an Asian American. However, I couldn’t write about it if I didn’t have the context. What I heard was worse than what I imagined it would be. In 2019, we should be beyond this already. Not only is this not comedy, but Gillis’s words are harmful. They breed hatred and this kind of behavior can’t and shouldn’t continue.
I grew up loving Saturday Night Live. I’m thrilled that Bowen has this opportunity, but to think of him sharing the same stage as people like Shane Gillis? It’s hard for me to grasp. So what do we do about Shane? Yes, I’m sure in some ways he has worked hard to get to this moment himself as well, but at the expense of hurting and diminishing others. Do we think Shane Gillis should be cancelled? Saturday Night Live should come forward with a statement. I’m not sure what that statement should look like, but my take is that he’s not the right person for this job. Shane will find other work, but he shouldn’t have the privilege of being on a platform like Saturday Night Live or a network like NBC.
It seems like these posts always get worked on when I have chunks of time to carve out for myself. They are the ones that I want to be the most thoughtful about. So if I’m stressed because of a deadline or under pressure, it’s not a good time. However, it’s moments like these where I do feel a bit of stress, but it’s these images that put me at ease. I read somewhere recently that when you have anxiety at work, there are a few things to remedy it. You can count or you can start listing things in a category. Anything that takes your mind off of what it is that causes you stress for a bit does the job. For me, it’s these types of images. They are the ones that spark whimsey, creativity, or a different perspective. What is it for you all that helps get you out of a rut like mine?Read more “A Collection Part 55”
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- Dr. Ruth Says ‘Make Time’ For Sex [New York Times]
- A Bowl of Cut Fruits Is How Asian Moms Say: I Love You [Taste] This is my own mother! <3
- Why Everyone Is Watching TV With Closed Captioning On These Days [Kottke]
- How Complaining Turns Co-Workers Into Friends [The Cut]
- How to Tip [Grub Street]
- LA Ice Cream Truck Charges Influencers Double [Ohnotheydidnt]
- This warms my heart every time [Instagram]
In news that I thought would never happen, Hilary Duff is reprising her role as Disney Channel star Lizzie McGuire. Growing up as a pre-teen/teenager is hard enough, and Disney got that. It’s the reason why they created series like Lizzie McGuire, That’s so Raven and Even Stevens so that we could all realize that everything we felt was normal. Also, it was a reminder that your awkward moments will never come close to your worst moments.
In the sequel series return, the show will follow Lizzie as a 30-something living in New York City. Other than Hilary herself, there’s no word yet on who will be back except for the original showrunner. Terri Minsky is the woman behind the creation of the show and will share with us the story of Lizzie all grown up.
Hilary Duff announced the news officially today on her own personal Instagram account.